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Lesson in Food Cravings: Practice Patience
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Summary: Make it as strong a desire as you can (this is how EFT gets a strong neuropathway to disrupt so don't fear you'll make your cravings stronger, it actually will do the opposite).
'Even though I can't stand waiting, I choose to give myself permission to wait.'
Reminder: 'Can't wait.'
'Even though I hate this waiting and I'm going to stick my face in it right now, I deeply and completely accept myself anyway.'
Reminder: 'Hate being told what to do.'
'Even though I can't seem to deny myself what I want, I deeply and completely love and accept myself and give myself permission to wait.'
Reminder: 'Can't deny.'
Practice this on some food or beverage that seems to call to you, and see whether it helps ease that pull.
Article: Food Cravings: How to Practice Patience
Why is it we save our best behavior for strangers and unleash it on our families? That's been true in my life, and I suspect it is in yours as well. During the upcoming holiday season we have numerous occasions for parties and family dinners which means more trips to the crowded grocery stores, or the worst of all: the mall. These can wreak havoc with your weight loss during this or any busy time of year.
Trying to 'plan ahead' so you can fade some of the rush is nearly impossible, unless you're smarter than I. Thinking I'd make within reach three major dishes for Easter Eve dinner it finally dawned on me that I'm need to start domestic science a few days early.
Waiting and present-day patient is not my favorite thing at all. I've uninterruptedly had a difficult time in making a cake a day ahead. (Whenever you dodge yourself saying the word 'always' that's a hint something to use EFT on is on the horizon to mind). I want to eat the cake as soon as it's finished, so if it must wait for a day, it's torture. I also like to make those huge three and four layer cakes so it takes up the entire refrigerator causing me to see it and nothing else every time I open the door.
Practicing Patience with Yourself and Others
Patience can be practiced all day every day. It is necessary when dealing with strangers, family, and most of all yourself. Just being as how you usually give in to your immediate desires for food doesn't mean you must do so. Maybe you are trying to blink feeling deprived but practicing and learning to exercise some patience may be of good use.
If I bake a lovely cake and see it in the refrigerator, it beckons to me. Knowing I cannot take a slice without ruining the presentation doesn't seem to help me duck the siren call. I could be sitting, minding my own business, when I suddenly snap my head upright, as if I've heard a ghost, 'Come and get a piece of cake,' it calls to me. 'I'm waiting,' it cries. 'Stupid cake, I think.'
Rather than trying to analyze why I have this strange desire to eat the cake, I'm just going to tackle it head-on with some EFT. I may also use the Swish Technique (taught in the Ending Emotional Eating workshop, Session 4).
If you've had similar struggles, try these suggested EFT phrases, or devise some for your situation. (EFT is easy to learn and use--see OneMoreBite-Weightloss.com for worksheets and instructions specific to weight loss or visit http://www.emofree.com for general information on learning EFT).
===== EFT for Patience in Eating
While tapping the P.R. (psychological reversal) point say,
'Even though I want to eat the cake, except I'm not supposed to seeing it's for tomorrow's dinner party, I deeply and completely consent myself.'
Repeat that statement three times and say it like you mean it.
Then tap the rest of the face and body points, using a short reminder such as, 'eat cake.' The entire time think somewhere about that cake and how much you want it and how delicious it would be. Make it as strong a desire as you can (this is how EFT gets a strong neuropathway to disrupt so don't fear you'll make your cravings stronger, it with truth will do the opposite).
'Even though I can't stand waiting, I like to give myself permission to wait.'
Reminder: 'Can't wait.'
'Even though I hate this waiting and I'm going to stick my face in it right now, I deeply and completely be easy with myself anyway.'
Reminder: 'Hate personage told what to do.'
'Even though I can't seem to deny myself what I want, I deeply and completely love and come by myself and give myself permission to wait.'
Reminder: 'Can't deny.'
Practice this on some food or tonic that seems to call to you, and see whether it helps ease that pull. If you are reluctant as long as you are timorous you'll lose the desire for the completely (and this is you favorite food so you don't want that to happen), don't worry. That's not going to happen. You may come to want it less often and undoubtedly you'll no longer feel a compulsive need for it, but most people discover they still enjoy the food just as much, they just no longer feel out-of-control nearby it. The control issue is what is cat addressed. The desire or compulsion to have something that seems farther a rational desire, that is what you are working to reduce.
Smile today at every person you see, and practice patience. Think of an inside joke, remember a happy moment, or a funny movie you saw. Put a happy memory in your head and surround it at random with you, then whenever you see someone just smile to yourself. Even in the crowded stores, people will treat you over when you put a happy dowel hereabout yourself, and you'll lift their spirits as well.
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